Monday, August 13, 2007

Concepts 101 Part 6: Points of Choices 選擇點 (原文為英文,後加中文翻譯)


Many people say that they do not have choices. 2 reasons:

1. They can't see their choices. The causes can be very complex. They might have blindspots. They might have too few points of views (i.e. positions, angles, frames...). They might have rigid beliefs. I will talk about them later.

2. They have not "see" their choices. They just thought, believed and decided that they do not have choices. We can't see any choice if we do not intentionally find them!

Everything starts with our Beliefs. Then we go through our Thinking > Feeling > Acting Process. Our beliefs are products of our Past Experiences. They are so difficult to identify and change. However, every point of your Thinking > Feeling > Acting Process can be a Point of Choices. Stop, check and you will find your other choices!

Once you find and adopt a new choices of thinking, feeling or acting, you are going to have New Experiences of thinking, feeling, acting and results. These New Experiences can then update your existing beliefs.

Simply by choosing a new choice, you can get new results and an update of your beliefs.


1. 他們看不到他們的選擇,原因可以非常複雜,他們可能存在盲點,他們的視點可能太少(即位置、角度、框架...),他們可能有僵化的信念,小弟稍後再作討論。

2. 他們還未「看到」他們的選擇,他們只是認為,相信並決定他們別無選擇;如果我們沒有刻意去找到它們,我們將看不到任何選擇!

一切始於我們的信念,然後,我們進行思考 > 感受 > 行動 過程;我們的信念是我們過去經驗的產物,它們是如此難以識別和更改,但是,您的思考 > 感受 > 行動 過程的每個方面,都可以成為你的一個選擇點,停下來檢查,你便會發現其他的選擇!



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