Thursday, August 27, 2009

Hypnosis: 內在回溯為什麼叫『內在』?

Hi,

剛完成了註冊催眠治療師第三單元-轉化催眠治療學,其中一個非常有用的技術是『內在回溯』,但為什麼她是叫『內在』呢?

過去九年,粗略計算一下,學過這個技術的同學,不下五六百人,奇怪從來沒有人問起這個問題!

整個課程中共有十多個技術,其中最重要的共四個,包括內在溝通、內在指導、內在調解及內在回溯,全都冠以『內在』為名。

內在溝通,『內在』在於溝通的對象為內心的次人格 (Sub-Personalities),亦即是你心中他人的想法,透徹的溝通讓你解開與別人之間的心結;

內在指導,『內在』由於不是向外尋求指導,而是詢問隱藏於自己潛意識中的資訊,自行瞭解問題,自行解決問題;

內在調解,『內在』基於是在整合自己心內的對立想法及信念,從而解除內心矛盾;

內在回溯,又是為什麼是『內在』呢?

內在回溯,是讓受者回到問題的根源事件,從新審視、從新理解,因理解而脫離問題困擾,但為什麼稱之為『內在』呢?

有效回溯最難之處,在於是否能夠回到根源事件,還有的是要做到回溯而非回想,回溯遠比回想更能發現更多細節;學過內在回溯的同學,請問回溯的是成人,還是心中內在當時的年輕人呢?

當然是後者,本身他已是當時的人,故更能肯定地回到根源事件,而且他本身已經是回溯了,因為他本身就已是當時的人,這就能避免回想!

當時的年輕人,是在受者心中內在的,那當然是『內在』了,亦因此如果程序一開始時,沒有先讓受者確實地感受到那個心中的年輕人,可能整個過程也只是在回想而矣!

心中的年輕人是在回溯,而成年人卻是在回想

Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Announcement: My 2010 Training Schedule (Updated Nov 13 2010)

Updated: Nov 13 2010

Hi,

學習,躍起的力量

多年前,小弟開始了很多當時還是異類,但今天卻是當紅的課程,現在那些課程,很多已變得『人人都在教』了!其中不少小弟仍然在教,因為小弟堅信:同名同姓的課程,不等於是同質同量


不過這個現象,至少說明了一個事實-小弟不斷地開發了不少有用的課程,而且遠早於他人呢!

今天,小弟在問自己:什麼是合適的退下不再教那些『人人都在教』的時機呢?應該不會太久以後吧!


小弟的一位美國朋友,曾是非常著名的NLP催眠的導師,早已退下火線;現在的他,悠然地享受著只教授那些不是『人人都在教』的,但自己卻喜歡的獨特事物,他明顯是小弟的榜樣!

2010年,小弟仍然繼續在教授不少『人人都在教』的課程,但添加了一些小弟更喜歡的新東西,希望你也會喜歡!


1. Free Program: Successability Seminar III-打工道. 如何成為成功的僱員?模擬『打工皇帝』的策略,至少每我們成為『打工首相』吧!

Our Modeling Excellence Series continues.... Want to enhance your own successability, come and join us. As usual, I might also add my mini-seminar of Annual Prediction.

In this module, I will report my modeling result of a successful employee. Unlike the previous 2 sessions, we are going to model together during the seminar!

Date: Mar 24 2010 (Postponed!!! New date to be announced!)
Time: 7:30pm - 9:30pm


2. New Program: Executive Thinking Course Level II - Ahead & Beyond 高階經營者思維課程 - 超越與向前. 想通才能想到,想到更多,才能想通!12小時內,你將更能更深入地獲取你的潛在思維能力。

全新資訊, 你絕不能在其他地方學到,每一項你將學到的技術也能令你受用一生,就算你未曾學習本課程的Level 1,你仍然能從這個既獨立又連貫的Level 2課程中掌握更多更重要的思維技術!
已錯過Level 1,還能錯過Level 2嗎?

Date: Feb 6, 7 2010
Organizer: The Excel Centre (Not St. James)
Remark: You can find details of Executive Thinking Course Level 1 HERE.


3. Free Program: NLP Essentials 身心語言程序學精要課程 (Free 10-Hours NLP Training). 人人皆應學懂的NLP技術,過去五年,超過4,500報讀;今年只辦一班,敬請留意報名時間。

You are going to learn all the essentials of NLP that you can't find elsewhere!You must enroll early! In the past 5 years, we conducted 2 courses each year, each 500 people, all FULL!

Date: Apr 15, 22, 29, May 6, 13 2010
Time: 7:30pm-9:30pm



4. Updated: Fate Reengineering 命運重整工程. 一個課程,同時學懂三種不同的性格形態學,沒有更多角度,任何單一學說,只會造成誤導!九柱圖、MBTI、240性格類型學,同時學會,但你將肯定能比市面任何單一性格學課程,學得更多更廣更深入!

Only done once every 3 years. You are going to learn Enneagram and MBTI in one single program. Time saving but very in-depth and intensive. You are also going to learn the very impressive 240 Personality Types!

Date: Apr 24-25, 28 2010
Time: Sat: 2:30pm-7:30pm; Sun: 12pm-6pm; Wed: 7:00pm-9:30pm


5. New Program: Systemic Personality Typology - Fate Reengineering Level 2. 沒有人在香港教授過的最高深性格型態學,導己導人!你將學會的是,最具科學研究驗證的MBTI,後面的真正意義所在!

Much more advanced knowledge of personality and typology! Might be only done once. If you miss it, you might miss it forever!

Date: May 4, 11, 18, 25 2010
Time: 7pm - 10pm


6. New Program: Psycho-Mentalogy心態心智學. 過去幾十年心理學最精采的研究總匯,你將掌握他們的研究成果,運用於日常生活與工作中;我們無需先成為心理學家,才能運用心理學的智慧來令自己生活過得更好吧,反正我們又不是用來扮心理治療師!

Be a smart consumer of years of researches of psychology. We do not need to know psychology but we can make use of the findings of those intelligent professionals who do the researches for us.

Use their wisdoms to advance our own lives. No matter your interest is in persuasion, development, mental health or people management.

They did the hard work. I do the easier integration and you learn the easiest way. You are going to acquire the knowledge of how people behave! This is the stuff you must know if you are working with people!

Date: Mar 11, 18, 27 2010
Time: Thu: 7pm - 10pm; Sat: 2:30pm - 8:30pm


7. Updated: Mental Symbology Level 1 心智符號學. 人的高階思維,以符號進行;人想不通,發生在低階思維之中;以高階的符號,協助自己別人,更有效率效益地想得更好!四年才開辦一次,萬勿錯過。不論你是治療師也好,顧問、教練也好,甚至只是上司指導下屬父母教育子女、老師指啟導學生,心智符號學技術,將是你不可多得的最新工具集。

It was once in 2006. Now I refine and relaunch her again in 2010. After that, you will need to wait another 4 years!

We help people not in their normal cognitive level, but in an advanced conceptual level. Advanced, useful and difficult know-how of helping others.

Date: Jul 22, 29, Aug 5, 12, 19, 26, Sep 16, 30 2010
Time: 7pm - 10pm


8. Updated: Mental Symbology Level 2 心智符號學第二級. 四年前舉辦一次,四年後重辦一次,下次也可能是四年後!

Again it was done once in 2006. Even more updated information. Too useful not be missed by anyone in any therapeatic, counseling, coaching and managing fields.

Date: Nov 4, 11, 18, 25 2010
Time: 7pm - 10pm


9. New Program: Mental Symbology Level 3 心智符號學第三級. 心智符號學最高階的技術!準備好把你的心智導人技術推向最高層次?

The highest level of knowledge in Mental Symbology. Ready to advance your symbolic modeling skills? You can wait for our next class in 2015 or join it in 2010!

Date: Dec 2, 16, 23 2010, Jan 12 2011
Time: 7pm - 10pm


10. Our Core Program:
NLP Practitioner 身心語言程序學執行師課程: 香港最深入、最詳盡、最便宜、的NLP執行師課程。

Our flagship program since 1998! Many graduates said that they learned even more from our Practitioner Program than others' Practitioner + Master Practitioner + NLP Trainer Courses, all together!!!

There are 2 streams of study you can select:

你可因應自己的興趣,報讀個別單元:


Personal Development Stream: (Personal Thinker's Course)
M3P: Basic Hypnosis: May 15, 16, 19, 29, 30, Jun 2 2010;
Practice Group: Jun 14 2010
M1: Foundation Skills & Concepts: Jun 12-13, 15 2010;
Practice Group: Jul 15 2010

M2: Behaviour Enhancement: Jul 24-25, 28 2010;
Practice Group: Aug 18 2010

M4P: Mind-Body Therapy: Sep 25-26, 29 2010
M5P: Advanced Language Patterns: Nov 20-21, 24 2010
M6: Mindset Breakthrough: Jan 15-16, 19 2011;

Practice Group: Jan 27 2011
M7: Strategy of Excellence: Feb 19-20, 23 2011;

Practice Group: Mar 3 2011
M8: Integration & Certification: Mar 12-13 2011

Business Development Stream: (Business Thinker's Course)
M1: Foundation Skills & Concepts: Jun 12-13, 15 2010;
Practice Group: Jul 15 2010
M2: Behaviour Enhancement: Jul 24-25, 28 2010;
Practice Group: Aug 18 2010
M3B: NLP Business Excellence: Aug 28-29, 30 2010

M4B: Hypno-Communication: Oct 9-10, 13 2010
M5B: Neuro-Linguistic Coaching: Dec 4-5, 6 2010
M6: Mindset Breakthrough: Jan 15-16, 19 2011;

Practice Group: Jan 27 2011
M7: Strategy of Excellence: Feb 19-20, 23 2011;

Practice Group: Mar 3 2011
M8: Integration & Certification: Mar 12-13 2011

Time: 2:30pm-7:30pm for Sat, 12pm-6pm for Sun (No lunch hour), 7:00pm-9:30pm for weekdays
Enquiry: Call 2835-4394 Richard Fung for more details.


11. Fine-Tuned: Master NLP Practitioner 高階身心語言程序學執行師. It is not just an advanced NLP program, but a master thinking course. If you want more than just NLP, this is the program you want.

每兩至三年才開辦一次,萬勿錯過!

Dates: 對不起,要辦的課程太多,無法兼顧,惟有2011年再會!



12. Classic Program Updated & Relaunch: Body-Mind Therapy Certification 身心治療學證書課程. 這個課程,2003年舉辦過一屆,過去六年,不斷地有同學問起何時再辦,決定把課程更新,再度推出一屆;再下一屆?真的後會不知期了!

這是一個研究你的身體如何影響你的思維,以及你的思維又如何反過來影響你的身體;我們講授的不是催眠治療,而是更多更富爭議性的治療方法;本課程將會是非常實驗性質,絕不適合沒有開放思維的朋友!

任期橫跨一年,共7個單元,亦是小弟本年度的重點課程!

你否因感興趣報讀個別單元。


Dates:


M1: 身心互動治療學: Sep 25-26, 29 2010
M2: 心理免疫學: Oct 30-31 2010
M3: 情緒能量治療學: Dec 18-19 2010
M4: 應用人體運動學: Jan 29-30 2011
M5: 聲色光治療學: Feb 26-27 2011
M6: 生物回饋學: Apr 9-10 2011
M7: 技術整合: May 7 2011


13. Free Programs: WABC Roundtable Meetings. 免費學習教練技術!你請你想研究的是企業教練,還是個人教練,你也能從這兩個免費課程中獲益。

Free programs for you to learn business coaching in two 2-hours sessions! Authorized by the Worldwide Association of Business Coaches to be conducted in Hong Kong.

Dates: May 12 2010 & Jun 9 2010
Time: 7:30pm - 9:30pm



14. Free Program: Art of Borrowability 借學. 借用他人的意念,不是偷、不是搶,被借者毫不察覺,因你並非單純直接移植,而是整合!你有你的原創性!

Our annual FREE business development program. In 4 sessions, 8 hours, you are going to master how to borrow ideas and make them just like your own with originality!

Date: May 27, Jun 3, 10, 17 2010
Time: 7:30pm - 9:30pm
Venue: Hong Kong Productivity Council


15. Our Flagship Program: Certified Hypnotherapist 國際認可註冊催眠治療師課程. 香港最國際認可的催眠治療師課程:英、美、澳、加!超越表面的催眠治療訓練!你會學懂十多個不同的催眠技術;更重要的是,你更會學懂一套系統來決定什麼情況,運用什麼技術,來達致最佳效果!

Professional course leading to certification by 4 different international hypnotherapy organizations.

Module 1: Self Hypnosis: May 15, 19 2010
Module 2: Basic Hypnosis: May 16, 29, 30, Jun 2 2010;
Practice Group: Jun 14 2010
Module 3: Transformational Hypnotherapy: Jul 10-11, 14 2010;
Practice Group: Aug 11 2010
Module 4: Holistic Hypnotherapy: Sep 18-19, 20 2010;
Practice Group: Oct 6 2010
Module 5: SOBER Therapy: Nov 27-28, Dec 1 2010;
Practice Group: Jan 20 2011
Module 6: Advanced SOBER Suggestions & AWARE Therapy: Jan 22-23, 26 2011;
Practice Group: Feb 16 2011
Module 7: Integration: Mar 26-27 2011

Time: 2:30pm-8:30pm for Sat, 12pm-6pm for Sun, 7:00pm-9:30pm for weekdays.


16. The Art of Happiness. 先明白快樂,做人才能更快樂。

This program is about happiness. At the same time, you will learn a special form of self-hypnosis to make your life happier!

Only for 2010 students of
NLP Practitioner Program. Past graduates are also welcomed. It is Free if you are one of them.

Date: Jul 16, 30 2010
Time: 7:30pm - 9:30pm



17. Must Learn for Business People: Registered Corporate Coach 註冊企業教練資格課程. 世界企業教練協會在大中華地區唯一認可的課程,香港專業教練培訓課程的先河,並可獲取國際認可專業資格。

Learning professional business coaching and earning the international designation of RCC of the
Worldwide Association of Business Coaches (WABC). WABC is the only truly international association for business coaches. She has members around the world!

Date:
Module 1: Jul 13, 20, 27, Aug 3 2010
Module 2: Aug 7-8 2010
Module 3: Aug 21-22 2010
Module 4: Aug 10, 17, 24, 31 2010
Time: 7:15pm-9:45pm for weekdays, 2:30pm-7:30pm for Sat, 12pm-7pm for Sun.

詳情:
http://www.hktrainingonline.com/eng/training
/coursedetail/40101236.PDF



18. Evolve 21 演化21. 情緒讓人不理性,不理性讓人遇上麻煩難題,理性地處理情緒,讓自己真的理性起來。


How to handle emotions using rational means! Only for current students of NLP Practitioner Program and the Registered Corporate Coach Program. Graduates are also welcomed. Free if you are one of them!

Date: Nov 12, 26 2010
Time: 7:00pm – 10:00pm
Enrollment: Email Richard Fung of St James at
richard.fung@sjs.org.hk.


19. Free Program: Think-Tank 2010. 一同創新,一同發揮創意極限;每年我們也打破了過去的創新意念數目記錄,今年想必也不會例外!

Date: Nov 17 2010
Time: 7:30pm - 9:30pm


20. Fully Upgraded Version: Coaching Excellence 專業教練學基礎證書課程. 以發問來讓人自行思想,而非強行灌輸的技術;真正的助人自助,授人以漁,而非授人以魚!

此課程是大中華區首個全中文教授,切合華人需要的專業教練證書課程,課程過去9年已舉辦了12屆,深受歡迎 ;課程經歷十個年頭,過去多年已不斷增加培訓內容,今年我們將作大幅度的更新,更多資訊、更多技術、更長訓練時數,但學費卻維持十年不變!

我們是第一個團體首先將教練這門新興專業引入香港,這肯定是一個你付出最少,收穫最多的專業教練課程!

The very best and intensive professional coaching course you can ever find. Over 700 graduates in the past 9 years!

Date: Nov 2, 9, 16, 23, 30 2010 (Revised Dates & Time)
Time: 7:00pm-10:00pm (共十五小時,比過去十二屆增長25%)


21. New Program: Inner Games of Coaching-教練的內涵 (WABC Member-Only Roundtable). 35年前,一本書的出版,促成一個專業、一種學問的誕生;35年過去了,可能是時候重新檢討一下,這本書的概念,是否仍然合時合用!

The original ideas of coaching revealed. I try to update this 35 years' old information to make it usable in any coach's everyday work. Being a coach, you should know the very original and how to make use of it!

Date: Oct 4, 11 2010
Time: 7:30pm - 9:30pm
Remark: Free to 2010 RCC students, current WABC members, current students of NLP Practitioners, and graduates of Super-Manager 2009.


22. Free Program: A-Classism. 人分等級,不是歧視,而是實況!現今社會,早已難有基於性別、種族、年齡、血統而來的等級,但人如何活,卻令人自行步進不同等級;本免費課程研究的就是如何提早升級 (升呢?!),如何避免降級的學問。

This one is again FREE, our annual personal development program. There are A-Class, B-Class and C-Class people in the world. I am not talking about discrimination. The A-Class excels in their lives most of their time while the C-Class suffers. The B-Class are the majority who always wish for more but not quite successful.

Which class are you in? This is a program of moving from B-Class to a B+ Class and hopefully the A-Class!

Date: Sep 21, 28, Oct 5, 12 2010
Time: 7:30pm - 9:30pm


23. New Program: Certified Facilitator Designation Program 認證輔引師資格課程. 我可以向大家保證:這是全世界最便宜的認證輔引師課程;首次舉辦,依例是學費最最低水平的時機,成功修畢可獲美國FacilitatorU Certified Facilitator認證。

Step 2 of our Certified Facilitator Program. You must be our graduate of the Associate Faciliator Program to be qualified to join. Internationally recognized by the FacilitatorU in the US.

Date: Aug 13, 27, Sep 17, 24, Oct 15, Nov 5, 19, Dec 3, 17 2010, Jan 14, 28, Feb 18 2011.
Time: 7pm - 10pm (Total: 36 Hours)
Remarks: Only for graduates of Associate Facilitator Programs.


26. Updated & Expanded:
Registered Personal Coach 註冊個人發展教練課程. 助人者必讀,那樣肯定?讀過你自會同意。

Our most difficult Registered Level Coaching Program. You are going to learn how to coach a person to master his/her live.

Dates: Starts Dec 7 2010, Jan 11, 18, 25, Feb 15, 22, Mar 1, 8, 15, 29, Apr 12, 19 2011

Time: 7pm - 10pm


Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel

P.S. I am going to continuously updating this page till end of 2010!

Last Updated: Nov 13
2010


There are still some other new programs I wish to add in 2010. But time is just too limited. I am trying my best to squeeze!


1. Personal Conversion Level 2 - Life Recasting. This is both Step 2 or Step 0 of the Life Remodeling Program. This program can make your Life Remodeling even more powerful. But it can also be used separately on its own.

2. BSism盲點心智學. Everything about blindspots in our mind. The best way to avoid and remove blindspots is to understand them. Be prepared to spot your own blindspots during the program.

3. Certified Strategist 認證策略企劃師. No matter it is just a person or an organization, to survive better and to prosper, you need strategies. This is a completely new certification program designed by me and some overseas experts.

This designation is a new one. Acceptability is not guranteed. When people starts to be able to appreciate it, you will be glad that you are amongst the first few who already had it!

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Announcement: 捐助8.8台灣水災

Hi,

早前Susan同學已在 HypnoNLP Group 中呼籲大家積極捐款協助台灣同胞,小弟也衷心希望大家有錢出錢!

小弟在此請求大家的幫助,請大家不拘多少,立即捐助,你們的善款,可以存入下列的銀行戶口中:

香港世界宣明會:
匯豐銀行 018-377077-002
中國銀行 012-883-0-002552-0

香港紅十字會:
匯豐銀行 002-205490-006

救世軍:
匯豐銀行 580-149649-001
中國銀行 012-878-1-044486-6
恒生銀行 024-385-094180-001
東亞銀行 015-515-10-50541-3

為答謝大家的慷慨,只要你於今天直至本月31日止,捐助不論多少後,電郵通知小弟(ask@keithto.com),小弟隨即送上一本有關身體語言的英文Ebook,該PDF文件雖然精簡,但內容卻是精確有用,希望大家喜歡!

能盡一點力,就盡一點力。

Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel

我的觀點: 為什麼東京街頭沒有垃圾箱?

Hi,

年初時到訪東京,剛好吃完便當,手上有點包裝用的廢紙,但環顧四周,竟沒法找到一個垃圾箱
,最後唯有帶回酒店處理。

東京的垃圾箱究竟去了那裡?

『全收起了!』,這是我八卦(或稱好奇)地詢問當地人後得到的答覆。

每個人也把垃圾帶回家,再分類處理,這樣做街頭就會更整潔,而整個城市也會更環保。

很好的辦法啊,為什麼我們不也去效法他們?

想問問大家,如果香港也跟東京一樣,不去設立垃圾箱,結果會可能是怎樣的呢?

Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel

原作於:2009年6月23日

Monday, August 17, 2009

Influencing: 誰是你的說服對象?

Hi,

這兩天剛在教授 NLP執行師課程中的潛意識溝通學,課題就是如何無意識地說服他人,可選擇的技術實在不少,但重點卻有兩項,必須牢記,否則事倍功半,甚至功敗垂成:

1. 世上沒有任何必勝說服秘技,每一種技術,只是增加一點勝算,我們不是只用一種技術,而是同時使用多種;但機關算盡,最後還要看對方的原有信念有多根深蒂固!

2. 那個才是你的說服對象,在你面前的,可以並不是你的說服對象,坐在旁邊的,又或根本不在你的眼前的,可能才是你要打動的人!

最近參與了一位客戶於某酒店咖啡室,進行的高級職員非正式 Interview,小弟只是坐在旁邊,而且可能小弟向來樣衰,結果應聘者一眼也沒有看過小弟,更莫說曾企圖說服小弟,可惜小弟雖不是是次會見的決定者 (Decision Maker),但卻是影嚮者 (Influencer)!

再舉一例,小弟回應在本Blog回應的朋友時,小弟的說服對象,究竟是誰呢?當然不是我的回應對手,而是諸位廣大其他讀者!設Blog的目的,不是為了某個人,而是為了會來看的所有人,不是嗎?

就算在你面前只得一個人,你要說服的,並不是他的理性邏輯思維,需是他的感性想象思維,那個才是你的說服對象。

先找到你的說服對象,不是很合理嗎?

Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel

Updated: May 9 2015

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

InfoBase 15: 全球最佳旅客調查

Hi,

最近旅遊網頁Expedia公佈了全球最佳旅客調查結果,毫不出奇地日本人稱冠,英國人次之;法國人包尾,西班牙人尾二,而我們中國人名列尾三。

我們中國人禮義之邦,為何慘變尾三?

Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel

Monday, August 10, 2009

Personal Development: 今生不做完美人

Hi,

剛完成了NLP執行師中的Body-Mind Healing單元的首兩天課程,談的是身心健康,減少不必要的壓力,是身心健康的基本條件。

年青的時候,每分每刻也在想如何改進自己,好像非要把自己變得完美不可,壓力之大,可想而知,但卻不見有啥進步,反而是越大壓力,越想不通!

自此之後,我立志成為一個不完美的人,這是我的終身事業;能好一點很好,不能好一點也很好!

我有我的缺點,能少一點很好,不能少一點也很好!

我有我的錯誤,能少一點很好,不能少一點也很好!

我有我的壞想法,能少一點很好,不能少一點也很好!

我有我的壞習慣,能少一點很好,不能少一點也很好!

我有我的下流行為,能少一點很好,不能少一點也很好!

我有我的賤格作風,能少一點很好,不能少一點也很好!

能做到一個不完美的人很好,不能做到也很好!

可能有人會說:人生沒有了目標,那還有什麼意義?但誰說目標一定要向自己開刀!還有,小弟不是說我的目標就是做一個不完美的人嗎?

Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel

後話:以『做不完美的人』作為目標,不是教壞人是什麼?小弟只是現實,世上那有『完美的人』?

Sunday, August 09, 2009

Systemic Thinking: 通識教育?

Hi,

昨天聖雅各劉兄來電,東拉西扯一輪後,就談到時下所謂的通識教育,大家也不約而同地認為『談論現時的通識教育是否有效』根本是多餘的討論,因為現時的所謂的通識,其實絕不是通識。

究竟什麼才是通識呢?

現時的通識教育,好像只是常識教育,又或是政治經濟愛國大雜薈教育;通識者,重點在於那個『通』字,『通』不是通盤,而是想『通』;通識教育,在於訓練學生如何能想得『通』,那將來不管他們學什麼、做什麼,自能如虎添翼,觸類旁『通』了。

但如何才能想得『通』呢?

看得更多,看到更多,好像無關的也能找到關連,本來想不『通』的,有了新的關連後,就想『通』了;要做到如此,系統式思維乃最佳選擇之一。

香港學生,慣於單一線式思維,凡問題者皆有標準答案,如能以系統式思維來推行通識教育,擴闊學生的思維空間,誠德政也;惟通識教育也希望能有課程大綱 (Syllabus),更要有標準答案 (Model Answers),那豈不是緣木求魚!

要成功推行通識教育,先來點通識吧!

Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel

Saturday, August 08, 2009

Personal Development: 被撻著了!

Hi,

昨天剛完成了本年度的7重自我催眠課程,課程的重點就是如何不被『撻』著;只要沒有負面的情緒被觸發,人本身是自然地在快樂狀態的!

減少被『撻』著,人自然更開心。

話需如此,但要做到,套句國家及特區政府官員的官話:得來不易呀!

在課程尾聲,小弟提到本人每年只有半年時間在工作,其餘日子都在放假,嬉戲遊玩,這很明顯是件是開心的事吧;但冷眼旁觀,看到好幾位同學登時面容扭曲,要多難看有多難看,為什麼呢?

被『撻』著了!

『撻』著我們的,不一定是不好的事件,中性甚至是正面的事,也能『撻』著我們,這正是小弟說了兩課的主題,人大多時間並不開心,因我們實在太易被『撻』著了!

要開心,就要減少被『撻』著;『撻』著後,什麼也被扭曲,開心,難矣!

Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel

Thursday, August 06, 2009

報讀注意: 我選讀的是什麼博士學位?!

Hi,

我讀的是什麼博士學位?

小弟讀的是形而上學,可以說是宗教學的一個旁支,絕對與小弟講授的課程一點關係也沒有,而且更是一個十分之『』的學位,毫無難度,極易取得,願意交學費,做點功課,即能取得。

這是小弟十多年前的一個選擇,當時覺得讀了多年與商業有關的『形而下』的課程,不如來點改變,就選擇一些絕對沒有什麼實用價值的學科來學習一下,那就選擇了形而上學了!

反正又不是用來搵食,最重要就是開心,就選擇了一個『雞雞地』容容易易的學位來報讀,這也是小弟的人生指導原則!

其實小弟每一個課程單張及各本小弟拙作中的自我介紹,也寫得很清楚,小弟的學位是宗教學,目的就是不想大家誤會小弟是什麼商管大師、心理學大師等等。

你不見小弟經常在課堂中強調:小弟只是一個爛鬼NLP Trainer、爛鬼催眠治療師而矣!

Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel

Wednesday, August 05, 2009

Systemic Thinking: 宏觀地看也會有肯定的結論!

Hi,

系統式思維,亦即看見更多更廣,也等於人們常說得宏觀地看事物;它的重要性,相信無需浪費大家的時間再一一描述了。

但宏觀地看事物,不等於把什麼可能性也說進去,什麼『你是對,他也是對』、『有可能是X,也有可能是Y』等說了等於沒說的話,不等於宏觀!

宏觀地看,是儘量把相關的因素也考慮進去,不是直接省力地說什麼也有可能性,而是看得更闊後作出肯定的結論。

看得更闊更廣,就更能有肯定的結論,皆因考慮因素太少,故難於作出判斷,自然不能肯定。

沒有肯定的結論,那來具體的行動,又那來具體的結果呢?肯定的結論可以是錯誤的,『結果』就是讓我們修正的引導指標!

模稜兩可的答案,只是迴避結果的縮骨表現而矣。

迴避結果,那來結果?!

Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel
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