Hi,
This is Part 2 of my series of Hypnosis is about Changes.
As mentioned in Part 1, hypnotherapist facilitating changes can be done at the Cause/Factors, Problem(s) or the Symptoms Levels. The easiest is the Symptoms Level. We do it by giving Post-Hypnotic Suggestions.
The problem using suggestions is it seldom really works.
When the symptoms are being removed by suggestions and the "Problem(s)" still exist, it can simply generate another symptom or the same symptom later. But this can be effective under either of these two conditions:
1. You identified the true Motivation for the change needed and the Motivation is big enough.
2. The Symptom is just one of the many ways that can "stablize" the "Problem". It is NOT the Only and/or Key way to do so.
For Condition 1, true motivation can seldom be identified in Conscious Mind (when client is awake). They are usually buried in the Sibconscious Mind. To be effective, we use the motivations found in both mind to persuade both the conscious and the subconscious minds. We get such information of the conscious mind during Pretalk while we can identify the motivation of the subconscious mind using techniques like, Inner Guide, Inner Healer, Communicate with the Disease Entity, Hypno-Analysis, Motivation Mapping, Hypnotic Uncovering Technique and the ES Therapy.
You can do nothing about Condition 2. Condition 1 is a matter of skills while Condition 2 is a matter of Luck!
Motivation is the key to effective hypnotic suggestions. So, we formulate our Main Suggestion using the format of "Changes because Motivation".
When you can't help the clients to improve at the "Symptom(s) Level", go to the higher levels. The higher levels can be more effective, but need greater skills and might invlove more pains to the clients!
I will talk more about the "Cause Level" in Part 3.
Keith
Sunday, January 29, 2006
Friday, January 27, 2006
Learning from Life #46 - #50
Hi,
Here is another part of my learning from life:
46. Forgiving is still the best way to get rid of the bad feeling when someone did something bad to you. I choose to forgive the one who did something bad to me that day.
47. People is neither good or bad. People is people!
48. The more senior someone is, the more he/she opens to learn.
49. It is not what happens to a person that is important. It is what he thinks about it.
50. It is not what happens to a person that is important. It is what he does about it.
Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel
Here is another part of my learning from life:
46. Forgiving is still the best way to get rid of the bad feeling when someone did something bad to you. I choose to forgive the one who did something bad to me that day.
47. People is neither good or bad. People is people!
48. The more senior someone is, the more he/she opens to learn.
49. It is not what happens to a person that is important. It is what he thinks about it.
50. It is not what happens to a person that is important. It is what he does about it.
Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel
Thursday, January 26, 2006
Hypnosis: Transference
Hi,
Transference is a problem faced by all helping professionals. This problem might not caused by you, but you can still be affected. No matter you are a therapist, coach, counsellor, trainer or even a manager.
If you don't understand this problem, you might find yourself confused or annoyed.
Your clients might project some positive qualities (you might not have them) onto you. This makes them thinking you are great. They like you or even love you. This is the Positive Transference. It seems good but all his/her perceptions about you are based on false assumptions. Sooner or later, they might "discover" the "truth" and then he/she might turn against you. He/she might attack you as they think you had cheated them, though you have done nothing all from the beginning. Your clients might even shifted into another form of Transference, the Negative Transference.
The Negative Transference is the opposite of the Positive Transference. They might project some negative qualities (again you might not have them) onto you. This makes them thinking you are bad, really bad.
You cannot do much about Transference. One of the precautions is to keep professional distance with your clients. But transference can still happen even though you take your precaution.
Just don't be happy too soon when you find your clients "like" you or don't be too upsetted when they "hate" you!
Keith
Transference is a problem faced by all helping professionals. This problem might not caused by you, but you can still be affected. No matter you are a therapist, coach, counsellor, trainer or even a manager.
If you don't understand this problem, you might find yourself confused or annoyed.
Your clients might project some positive qualities (you might not have them) onto you. This makes them thinking you are great. They like you or even love you. This is the Positive Transference. It seems good but all his/her perceptions about you are based on false assumptions. Sooner or later, they might "discover" the "truth" and then he/she might turn against you. He/she might attack you as they think you had cheated them, though you have done nothing all from the beginning. Your clients might even shifted into another form of Transference, the Negative Transference.
The Negative Transference is the opposite of the Positive Transference. They might project some negative qualities (again you might not have them) onto you. This makes them thinking you are bad, really bad.
You cannot do much about Transference. One of the precautions is to keep professional distance with your clients. But transference can still happen even though you take your precaution.
Just don't be happy too soon when you find your clients "like" you or don't be too upsetted when they "hate" you!
Keith
Friday, January 20, 2006
Hypnosis: Hypnosis is About Changes Part 1
Hi,
I seldom write about hypnosis. So I decide to write several short articles about my concepts of hypnotherapy. This is Part 1 of the series.
Hypnosis is about changes. We want to change because we do not satisfy with something about ourselves. It can be a bad habit, an addiction, a weakness, or a psychosomatic disease. It is something we don't want, consciously. But we just can't get rid of it because there can be some sub-conscious reasons, Cause and/or Factors.
A Cause is something happened in the past that caused your "Problem". There must a cause to everything. This is simple logic. Factors are something that create the condition for your "Problem". You can change your "Problem" by working on your Cause and/or your Factors.
One thing you must bear in mind that your bad habit, an addiction, a weakness, or a psychosomatic disease is NOT your "Problem". It is just the Symptom or one of the Symptoms of your "Problem". Your "Problem" is that something behind the Symptoms. For example, people has an addiction to alcohol can be just a Symptom of feeling stressed (i.e. the "Problem"). If we just remove the Symptom, some other Symptom can appear (or the same Symptom reappears later) as the "Problem" is still there.
To summarize:
Cause -- Problem(s) -- Symptom(s)
Factor(s)
To successfully change, we can work on the Cause, the Factors, and/or the "Problem" itself. Well-trained Hypnotherapists work on either of these. (I am talkig about working on the "Problem", not removing it. If you remove the "Problem", the Cause will just create another "Problem". I will talk about it in greater details in later articles)
Keith
I seldom write about hypnosis. So I decide to write several short articles about my concepts of hypnotherapy. This is Part 1 of the series.
Hypnosis is about changes. We want to change because we do not satisfy with something about ourselves. It can be a bad habit, an addiction, a weakness, or a psychosomatic disease. It is something we don't want, consciously. But we just can't get rid of it because there can be some sub-conscious reasons, Cause and/or Factors.
A Cause is something happened in the past that caused your "Problem". There must a cause to everything. This is simple logic. Factors are something that create the condition for your "Problem". You can change your "Problem" by working on your Cause and/or your Factors.
One thing you must bear in mind that your bad habit, an addiction, a weakness, or a psychosomatic disease is NOT your "Problem". It is just the Symptom or one of the Symptoms of your "Problem". Your "Problem" is that something behind the Symptoms. For example, people has an addiction to alcohol can be just a Symptom of feeling stressed (i.e. the "Problem"). If we just remove the Symptom, some other Symptom can appear (or the same Symptom reappears later) as the "Problem" is still there.
To summarize:
Cause -- Problem(s) -- Symptom(s)
Factor(s)
To successfully change, we can work on the Cause, the Factors, and/or the "Problem" itself. Well-trained Hypnotherapists work on either of these. (I am talkig about working on the "Problem", not removing it. If you remove the "Problem", the Cause will just create another "Problem". I will talk about it in greater details in later articles)
Keith
Wednesday, January 18, 2006
Personal Development: Sharing a Poem: Change
Hi,
看了一首喜歡的詩，大膽地去嘗試翻譯，並與大家分享：
Changeby Bob Tschannen-Moran (c) 2006
The gnawing preoccupation
That something might be wrong
That something has gone wrong
That something will go wrong
Does not inspire great change
Do this, or die
Lose this, or die
Gain this, or die
Achieve this, or die
Measure up to this, or die
The ultimatums of what must be done
And the babble of things gone wrong
Paint the case for change
On a canvass of Frustration, failure, and fear
It takes courage to step away,
To let the noise die down,
And to listen for that still, small voice.
It takes wisdom to trust The whisper of life:
"Let there be nothing wrong now."
"Let there be nothing wrong."
"Let there be something right now."
"Let there be something right
With life!"
The whisper roars
And planets turn
Infants grow
And lovers embrace
For life
The canvass bursts with
Aspiration, hope, and change
As the voice
Forever speaking
Proclaims things right
Right enough to dream again
Of things that might yet be
Right enough to design again
A different destiny
Such is the mystery of change!
We welcome the conversation
And befriend the challenge
Of becoming who we are
At our best
We invite the world
To join in the dance
Of becoming all it can be
Leaping and laughing into
New possibility
改變
作者：by Bob Tschannen-Moran (c)2006 年
折磨人的當務之急
好像那些可能出錯的事
好像那一些已經出錯的事
好像那一些將會出錯的事
但這全都不會啟發重要的改變
做，又或死亡
失去，又或死亡
獲得，又或死亡
完成，又或死亡
達成，又或死亡
必須要做的事的最後通牒
以及事情出錯的嘮叨
繪畫出改變的因由
在挫折，失敗，和恐懼
的遊說上
這需勇氣去退在一旁，
去讓噪音靜下，
以及去聆聽那靜靜，微小的聲音。
這更需智慧去信任
生命的低語：
「讓現在沒有甚麼東西出錯。」
「讓沒有甚麼東西出錯。」
「讓現在有些東西正確。」
「讓一些東西正確，為了生命！」
低語咆嘯
行星運轉
嬰兒成長
以及情人擁抱
為了生命
遊說被渴望，希望，和改變撕裂
當聲音
永遠宣布：事情是正確的
這是正確的去再度造夢
事情是有無限可能
這是正確的去再度設計
不同的命運
這是改變的奧義！
我們歡迎對話
以及對做回最好的自己
的挑戰
以友相待
我們邀約全世界
參與成為他們可以達成
的舞蹈
歡樂地躍進
新的可能
Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel
看了一首喜歡的詩，大膽地去嘗試翻譯，並與大家分享：
Changeby Bob Tschannen-Moran (c) 2006
The gnawing preoccupation
That something might be wrong
That something has gone wrong
That something will go wrong
Does not inspire great change
Do this, or die
Lose this, or die
Gain this, or die
Achieve this, or die
Measure up to this, or die
The ultimatums of what must be done
And the babble of things gone wrong
Paint the case for change
On a canvass of Frustration, failure, and fear
It takes courage to step away,
To let the noise die down,
And to listen for that still, small voice.
It takes wisdom to trust The whisper of life:
"Let there be nothing wrong now."
"Let there be nothing wrong."
"Let there be something right now."
"Let there be something right
With life!"
The whisper roars
And planets turn
Infants grow
And lovers embrace
For life
The canvass bursts with
Aspiration, hope, and change
As the voice
Forever speaking
Proclaims things right
Right enough to dream again
Of things that might yet be
Right enough to design again
A different destiny
Such is the mystery of change!
We welcome the conversation
And befriend the challenge
Of becoming who we are
At our best
We invite the world
To join in the dance
Of becoming all it can be
Leaping and laughing into
New possibility
改變
作者：by Bob Tschannen-Moran (c)2006 年
折磨人的當務之急
好像那些可能出錯的事
好像那一些已經出錯的事
好像那一些將會出錯的事
但這全都不會啟發重要的改變
做，又或死亡
失去，又或死亡
獲得，又或死亡
完成，又或死亡
達成，又或死亡
必須要做的事的最後通牒
以及事情出錯的嘮叨
繪畫出改變的因由
在挫折，失敗，和恐懼
的遊說上
這需勇氣去退在一旁，
去讓噪音靜下，
以及去聆聽那靜靜，微小的聲音。
這更需智慧去信任
生命的低語：
「讓現在沒有甚麼東西出錯。」
「讓沒有甚麼東西出錯。」
「讓現在有些東西正確。」
「讓一些東西正確，為了生命！」
低語咆嘯
行星運轉
嬰兒成長
以及情人擁抱
為了生命
遊說被渴望，希望，和改變撕裂
當聲音
永遠宣布：事情是正確的
這是正確的去再度造夢
事情是有無限可能
這是正確的去再度設計
不同的命運
這是改變的奧義！
我們歡迎對話
以及對做回最好的自己
的挑戰
以友相待
我們邀約全世界
參與成為他們可以達成
的舞蹈
歡樂地躍進
新的可能
Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel
Tuesday, January 17, 2006
Learning from Life #41 - #45
Hi,
Here is my next 5 learning from life:
41. We only care about what we don't have, but forget about what we have.
42. We always give ourselves long term pains by greedy short term gains.
43. Some people thinks. Some people acts. Some people does both.
44. Everything has 2 sides, at least.
45. We can make both ourselves and others unhappy when we cheat ourselves.
Hope you enjoy these 5 learning.
Keith
Here is my next 5 learning from life:
41. We only care about what we don't have, but forget about what we have.
42. We always give ourselves long term pains by greedy short term gains.
43. Some people thinks. Some people acts. Some people does both.
44. Everything has 2 sides, at least.
45. We can make both ourselves and others unhappy when we cheat ourselves.
Hope you enjoy these 5 learning.
Keith
Friday, January 13, 2006
Personal Development: Personal Cycles - Up & Down
Hi,
Whether you notice it or not, we have cycles.
We go up and down within day, months, years or even decades. These up and down cycles are being affected by so many factors, inside and outside.
You might not be able to make yourself always high in the up-cycles. But we can be sensitive enough to be aware of their existence. Then you can make use of your cycles.
I am right now in my down-cycle. I am in doubt, boring moods. I am not quite productive. I always find myself very tired. I am slow in response. It is the best time for rest and reflection. We are in down-cycles because we used up our energy and there might be something that is pushing us down. Rest and Reflection are the keys to getting up again.
The more rest you get during these period, the more energy you can restore. The more insights you can get from your reflection, the more clarity about your situation you can gain.
Don't push yourself out of the down-cycle. You just make yourself even more "down", like drowning. The harder you push, the deeper you sink!
Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel
Updated: Apr 11 2015
Whether you notice it or not, we have cycles.
We go up and down within day, months, years or even decades. These up and down cycles are being affected by so many factors, inside and outside.
You might not be able to make yourself always high in the up-cycles. But we can be sensitive enough to be aware of their existence. Then you can make use of your cycles.
I am right now in my down-cycle. I am in doubt, boring moods. I am not quite productive. I always find myself very tired. I am slow in response. It is the best time for rest and reflection. We are in down-cycles because we used up our energy and there might be something that is pushing us down. Rest and Reflection are the keys to getting up again.
The more rest you get during these period, the more energy you can restore. The more insights you can get from your reflection, the more clarity about your situation you can gain.
Don't push yourself out of the down-cycle. You just make yourself even more "down", like drowning. The harder you push, the deeper you sink!
Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel
Updated: Apr 11 2015
Monday, January 09, 2006
Email Distribution List of the Content of this Website
Hi,
I have just added a new email distribution list for the content of this website.
I post new message every 2 to 3 days. If you want to updated with all the information, simply send a blank email to keithto+subscribe@googlegroups.com to join.
Then you will received an email everytime I post to this site.
Hope you like this new service to you.
Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel
I have just added a new email distribution list for the content of this website.
I post new message every 2 to 3 days. If you want to updated with all the information, simply send a blank email to keithto+subscribe@googlegroups.com to join.
Then you will received an email everytime I post to this site.
Hope you like this new service to you.
Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel
Thursday, January 05, 2006
I was Nearly Drowned!
Hi,
Last week, I went for my holiday in Malaysia. Great sunshine and beautiful beaches!
I went snorkeling. I should wear a life jacket but I didn't. I thought that I am good at swimming and snorkeling. (I am a lifeguard twenty years ago!) A life jacket seemed to be meaningless to me.
There were lots of lovely fishes moving around here and there.
Suddenly, some sea water flushed into my mouth and I was choked. Just like everybody who had been choked in water, I moved my arms and legs fiercely and more water got into my mouth. A clear message flashed into my mind - "I am drowned!"
The second message went into my mind was that I should have worn a life jacket.
The third message then appeared - "I don't want to die and I need to be calm."
This is something easier to say than do. But I managed to do so and then I recalled what I learned during my lifeguard training. Most of the people will not die if they just stop what they are doing when they are drowned. That is, moving their arms and legs. This will just make them sinking faster.
So I stopped moving and started to breath slowly. It took me a minute or so before I became "normal" again. I saved my own life.
Lessons Learned:
1. Accident happens. It happens to those who do not think it will happen to them.
2. Sometimes it is what you are doing kills you. Stop doing what you are doing if it doesn't work.
3. Ask yourself what you really need. In my case, I need air, so I breath.
These are something too simple, but they saved my life.
Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel
Last week, I went for my holiday in Malaysia. Great sunshine and beautiful beaches!
I went snorkeling. I should wear a life jacket but I didn't. I thought that I am good at swimming and snorkeling. (I am a lifeguard twenty years ago!) A life jacket seemed to be meaningless to me.
There were lots of lovely fishes moving around here and there.
Suddenly, some sea water flushed into my mouth and I was choked. Just like everybody who had been choked in water, I moved my arms and legs fiercely and more water got into my mouth. A clear message flashed into my mind - "I am drowned!"
The second message went into my mind was that I should have worn a life jacket.
The third message then appeared - "I don't want to die and I need to be calm."
This is something easier to say than do. But I managed to do so and then I recalled what I learned during my lifeguard training. Most of the people will not die if they just stop what they are doing when they are drowned. That is, moving their arms and legs. This will just make them sinking faster.
So I stopped moving and started to breath slowly. It took me a minute or so before I became "normal" again. I saved my own life.
Lessons Learned:
1. Accident happens. It happens to those who do not think it will happen to them.
2. Sometimes it is what you are doing kills you. Stop doing what you are doing if it doesn't work.
3. Ask yourself what you really need. In my case, I need air, so I breath.
These are something too simple, but they saved my life.
Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel
Monday, January 02, 2006
Learning from Life #36 - #40
Hi,
Another 5 of my learning from life:
36. Controlling oneself is easier than controlling others.
37. Work and Play can be done at the same time.
38. If you really want to help others, fulfill their needs, not yours!
39. To React is easier than to Respond.
40. Care for others, but live your own life.
Keith
Another 5 of my learning from life:
36. Controlling oneself is easier than controlling others.
37. Work and Play can be done at the same time.
38. If you really want to help others, fulfill their needs, not yours!
39. To React is easier than to Respond.
40. Care for others, but live your own life.
Keith
Sunday, January 01, 2006
A Poem: Gossip
Hi,
I just read this poem from a magazine. I love it.
Gossip
My name is Gossip.
I have no respect for justice.
I maim without killing.
I break hearts and ruin lives.
I am cunning and malicious
and gather strength with age.
The more I am quoted, the more I am believed.
My victims are helpless.
They cannot protect themselves against me
because I have no name and no face.
To track me down is impossible.
The harder you try, the more elusive I become.
I am nobody's friend.
Once I tarnish a reputation, it's never the same.
I topple governments and wreck marriages.
I ruin careers and cause sleepless nights,
heartaches and indigestion.
I make innocent people cry in their pillows.
Even my name hisses.
I am called Gossip.
I make headlines and headaches.
Before you repeat a story, ask yourself:
Is it true? Is it harmless?
Is it necessary?
If it isn't, don't repeat it.
Anonymous
Here is my Chinese translation of the above:
說長道短
我的名字叫說長道短
我對公義毫不尊重
我傷害但不殺害
我令人傷心和摧毀人生
我是狡猾和滿懷惡意的
以及能夠隨著時間收集力量
越是我被引用，越是令人相信
我的受害者是無助的
他們不能保護自己免受我的傷害
因為我沒有名字和沒有臉
追捕到我是不可能的
你越嘗試，我變得越難以捉摸
我不是任何人的朋友
一旦我玷污一個人的名聲，它將無法修復
我推翻政府和殘害婚姻
我毀壞事業和令人失眠
心痛和胃痛
我令無辜的人在他們的枕頭中哭泣
雖然我的名聲敗壞
我被稱為說長道短
我打造標題和困擾
在你重複一個事件以前，問問自己：
它是真的嗎？它是無害的嗎？
有必要去重複它嗎？
如果它不是，就不重複它
匿名
Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel
Updated: Apr 11 2015
I just read this poem from a magazine. I love it.
Gossip
My name is Gossip.
I have no respect for justice.
I maim without killing.
I break hearts and ruin lives.
I am cunning and malicious
and gather strength with age.
The more I am quoted, the more I am believed.
My victims are helpless.
They cannot protect themselves against me
because I have no name and no face.
To track me down is impossible.
The harder you try, the more elusive I become.
I am nobody's friend.
Once I tarnish a reputation, it's never the same.
I topple governments and wreck marriages.
I ruin careers and cause sleepless nights,
heartaches and indigestion.
I make innocent people cry in their pillows.
Even my name hisses.
I am called Gossip.
I make headlines and headaches.
Before you repeat a story, ask yourself:
Is it true? Is it harmless?
Is it necessary?
If it isn't, don't repeat it.
Anonymous
Here is my Chinese translation of the above:
說長道短
我的名字叫說長道短
我對公義毫不尊重
我傷害但不殺害
我令人傷心和摧毀人生
我是狡猾和滿懷惡意的
以及能夠隨著時間收集力量
越是我被引用，越是令人相信
我的受害者是無助的
他們不能保護自己免受我的傷害
因為我沒有名字和沒有臉
追捕到我是不可能的
你越嘗試，我變得越難以捉摸
我不是任何人的朋友
一旦我玷污一個人的名聲，它將無法修復
我推翻政府和殘害婚姻
我毀壞事業和令人失眠
心痛和胃痛
我令無辜的人在他們的枕頭中哭泣
雖然我的名聲敗壞
我被稱為說長道短
我打造標題和困擾
在你重複一個事件以前，問問自己：
它是真的嗎？它是無害的嗎？
有必要去重複它嗎？
如果它不是，就不重複它
匿名
Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel
Updated: Apr 11 2015
My 2006 Prediction
Hi,
Every year I do the prediction for the year. I am not doing it by any metaphysical method. I watch trends. Some people like watching birds, fishes, boys or girls, I like watching trends.
It is very interesting to see the trends going up and down, in and out, slow and fast!
My overall prediction for 2006 in Hong Kong: Not as good as 2005, or even a bit worse!
As I had mentioned in my 2005 Prediction Seminar last year, 2005 is a good year for Hong Kong People. I had already warned at last year's seminar that 2006 is not going to be good, and I still think so.
If you like to know more about my predictions in 2006, come to the 2006 Prediction Seminar in Feb 27 2006. Details of registration will be announced soon through the Excel Your Life Newsletter.
Keith
Every year I do the prediction for the year. I am not doing it by any metaphysical method. I watch trends. Some people like watching birds, fishes, boys or girls, I like watching trends.
It is very interesting to see the trends going up and down, in and out, slow and fast!
My overall prediction for 2006 in Hong Kong: Not as good as 2005, or even a bit worse!
As I had mentioned in my 2005 Prediction Seminar last year, 2005 is a good year for Hong Kong People. I had already warned at last year's seminar that 2006 is not going to be good, and I still think so.
If you like to know more about my predictions in 2006, come to the 2006 Prediction Seminar in Feb 27 2006. Details of registration will be announced soon through the Excel Your Life Newsletter.
Keith
My Learning in 2005
Hi,
I started the "My Weekly Learning from Life Series" in this blog several months ago. I love doing this as I can consolidate my own learning.
If you ask me what was my greatest learning in the year of 2005, I will tell you this one:
If someone is angry with me, it is my own fault. But I won't blame myself for this. If what I had done is necessary, I will do it again in the future, even harder! If what I had done is unnecessary, I will do something different next time!
Please kindly accept my appology if I had upset you in the past.
Keith
I started the "My Weekly Learning from Life Series" in this blog several months ago. I love doing this as I can consolidate my own learning.
If you ask me what was my greatest learning in the year of 2005, I will tell you this one:
If someone is angry with me, it is my own fault. But I won't blame myself for this. If what I had done is necessary, I will do it again in the future, even harder! If what I had done is unnecessary, I will do something different next time!
Please kindly accept my appology if I had upset you in the past.
Keith
Personal Development: The First Thing I Did in 2006
Hi,
Do you know what was my first thing I did in 2006?
I got lost during my drive back home at 12:00am Jan 1 2006!
When I confirmed that I was really lost, I seek help and ask for direction from a police officer immediately! He showed me the way and I got back home right away.
Lesson learned: Seek help when help is needed. Ask for it or you might get even worse or at least wasted your valuable time and effort.
Asking for help is not something bad! It helps!
Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel
Updated: Apr 11 2015
Do you know what was my first thing I did in 2006?
I got lost during my drive back home at 12:00am Jan 1 2006!
When I confirmed that I was really lost, I seek help and ask for direction from a police officer immediately! He showed me the way and I got back home right away.
Lesson learned: Seek help when help is needed. Ask for it or you might get even worse or at least wasted your valuable time and effort.
Asking for help is not something bad! It helps!
Keith
Explore, Exceed & Excel
Updated: Apr 11 2015